Tuesday, March 23, 2010

What is your Approach to Love?

How do you approach love? Do you sneak up on it? Do you let it happen naturally? Do you sabotage love on purpose? Do you avoid it altogether?
Let's establish one thing- there are no guarantees in Love- you don't get a reciept, you can't return it to the store because it didn't fit or it wasn't the same when you got home. Love is at best a gamble. There are risks involved and sometimes one of those risks include the possibility of getting hurt or rejected. Are you up for the challenge?
If so, ask yourself do I want real love or the artifical nutra-sweet version of the real thing?
Do I deserve to be treated like a queen when clearly I don't treat my honey like he's a king? What do I bring to the table other than MY bills and My hopes that if he's a Real man that he will pay them for me.
 He didn't make them- why should you go in expecting him to pay them?
Change your focus ladies, enhance your vision so that you can advance your mind to soar beyond his financial status and his brand and work on developing your BRAND( that's another discussion-stay tuned)
 Narrow down that ridiculous list you created in high school about that dream man your waiting to come along on a white horse and wisk you away. Newsflash...The Lone Ranger has passed away(oops sorry). Im'm not saying that a man won't come in and sweep you off your feet- what I am saying is -if your feet are grounded already there's no need for him to do all the swooping- Real men dont mind carrying loads....but the load won't be so heavy for him too lift if he knows that he's not expectant to come in and be a Super Hero right from the beginning!
I'm just saying.......

Next on Mahaghani Speaks...The Unrealistic View of  a Man

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