What is your Approach to Love?

How do you approach love? Do you sneak up on it? Do you let it happen naturally? Do you sabotage love on purpose? Do you avoid it altogether?

Let's establish one thing- there are no guarantees in Love- you don't get a reciept, you can't return it to the store because it didn't fit or it wasn't the same when you got home. Love is at best a gamble. There are risks involved and sometimes one of those risks include the possibility of getting hurt or rejected. Are you up for the challenge?

If so, ask yourself do I want real love or the artifical nutra-sweet version of the real thing?

Do I deserve to be treated like a queen when clearly I don't treat my honey like he's a king? What do I bring to the table other than MY bills and My hopes that if he's a Real man that he will pay them for me.

 He didn't make them- why should you go in expecting him to pay them?

Change your focus ladies, enhance your vision so that you can advance your mind to soar beyond his financial status and his brand and work on developing your BRAND( that's another discussion-stay tuned)

 Narrow down that ridiculous list you created in high school about that dream man your waiting to come along on a white horse and wisk you away. Newsflash...The Lone Ranger has passed away(oops sorry). Im'm not saying that a man won't come in and sweep you off your feet- what I am saying is -if your feet are grounded already there's no need for him to do all the swooping- Real men dont mind carrying loads....but the load won't be so heavy for him too lift if he knows that he's not expectant to come in and be a Super Hero right from the beginning!

I'm just saying.......

Next on Mahaghani Speaks...The Unrealistic View of  a Man

Undetected Gifts

Can you seriously take a look in the mirror and say that your happy? If the answer is no, ask yourself what are you doing to make yourself over?

Your mirror image is only a physical reflection, It does not reflect what lies beneath the surface. Before you start to breakdown your self esteem and think of all the things you HAVEN"T accomplished in your life, take a moment and think about the things you have done that go undetected to the human eye.

Remember that time when you held open the door for the person behind you when you went into the store? Well, what you didn't know was that the person had recently lost his arm movements and was unable to reach the door to open it for himself- without hesitation you did and he felt proud that he was able to walk through a door even though he was unable to open it himself.

Oh and that smile that you gave while walkin that connected you with the person walking towards you- well they just found out that their child was dying and he promised his parents that "they will see his smile everywhere they go." That SMILE from you was the confirmation they needed to know that he was now at peace.

Let's not forget that spark in your voice- you know the sound of excitement you give everytime you answer the phone? Well that enthusiasm and concern you just shared with a stranger helped them to feel good about themselves - so much, that they decided not to end their life just because of YOU!

All I'm saying is even when you feel like your noboby to anybody and you are at the lowest point of your life, you are the very reason that somebodies day is a little brighter and you have a undetective gift that seems to help everybody!

I'm just sayin......